Home > Articles > Life Application

This article is part of the series: All One in the Church

A Welcoming Church

I recently went for a walk just to look at my local churches. I suggest you do this too and notice which ones make you feel like walking in. Imagine you are at a crisis point in your life and you’re feeling vulnerable. Which church would you choose? Which one looks best to visit if you are lonely?
By Carmel Page
Read Time: 2 minutes

I recently went for a walk just to look at my local churches. I suggest you do this too and notice which ones make you feel like walking in. Imagine you are at a crisis point in your life and you’re feeling vulnerable. Which church would you choose? Which one looks best to visit if you are lonely? Which one is most appealing for worship? Next Sunday, park somewhere different from usual and walk to your own meeting place. Try to look at it with fresh eyes. How do you think your ecclesial hall looks to other people?

Not everyone is aware that churches operate as community centers, providing activities for all ages.

Not everyone knows what happens in churches. Some people have never been into one and have only seen Christian services in films, where they tend to be portrayed in stereotypical ways and satirized. Not everyone is aware that churches operate as community centers, providing activities for all ages. People may not realize there is more to church than just services. It may help to ask yourself these questions:

  • Does my church building look inviting?
  • Does it have a Welcome sign on the door? Or a Welcome mat?
  • Does our signage include the languages used by members of our local community?
  • Have we clearly posted what times the church is open and what happens inside?
  • Can passers-by see photographs of the inside?
  • Do we host activities people can attend without committing to sitting through a whole service?
  • When my church is open, is the door open?
  • Is there normally someone assigned to greet visitors?
  • How do we appear welcoming if we rent, not own a hall?
  • What needs to change to make my ecclesia more welcoming?

There is a church near where I live with three words written on the doors: Worship, Friendship, Advice. The word “worship” makes it clear the building is not just a community center. It’s a church and its number one activity is to be a place for worshiping God, but the other words show it is also about people, our need for contact with others and our need for support. I really like those three words. If someone has not been to church before, their introduction to the Bible might be the moment they walk into your church. What do we need to do to emulate Paul and Barnabas who reported how they had made the church a welcoming place and, “opened the door of faith” for others (Acts 14:27)?

Carmel Page
(Sheffield, UK)

Bible
Series
Carmel Page looks at how ecclesial life can better reflect the unity of the body of Christ through greater awareness, welcome, and practical care. Across everyday church situations, she considers how believers respond to people with different needs, backgrounds, vulnerabilities, and experiences, and encourages a more compassionate, inclusive, and spiritually mature community culture.
Part 1
I recently went for a walk just to look at my local churches. I suggest you do this too and notice which ones make you feel like walking in. Imagine you are at a crisis point in your life and you’re feeling vulnerable. Which church would you choose? Which one looks best to visit if you are lonely?
Part 2
Churches are good for families: from toddler groups to Sunday school and youth weekends, we provide for all ages. We all can help make life easier for families if we are flexible and plan thoughtfully.
Part 3
Dementia affects people’s ability to think and debilitates memory. While it can be frustrating to deal with people who are confused, it’s also a great way to practice the fruit of the spirit.
Part 5
Imagine what would happen if everyone attended services in their underwear? Or is it best not to imagine!? WHO? WHAT? WEAR?
Part 6
The sacred books of the Bible illuminate the history, culture and future of the Jewish people. Because of our love of the Scriptures, Christadelphians embrace this heritage and are motivated to think favorably of the Jewish people.
Part 7
Our behaviors can impact the whole world, and it is our Christian responsibility to act accordingly. There are many realistic ways that we can protect God’s world and everyone in it. We don’t have to do all the things, but we should try to do some.
Part 8
Children learn about consent when we respect their choices about us touching them. Many people love to hug children, but just because we are bigger, it does not give us the right.