Home > Articles > Reflections

In Person

It is a true joy to be together with fellow believers.
By PAUL ZILMER
Read Time: 2 minutes

I’m really looking forward to being at my upcoming week-long Bible retreat.  There will be classes, and I look forward to hearing scriptural insights from the presenters.  Importantly, there will also be time to interact with fellow believers, sharing ideas, sharing meals, sharing time.  Sharing our faith, our hope and our love.

This kind of interaction is really helpful.  In fact it’s presented to us as essential.  The writer to Hebrews directs us:

But exhort one another every day, as long as it is called “today,” that none of you may be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin. (Hebrews 3:13)
And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near. (Hebrews 10:24-25)

Sure, we can “exhort one another” from a distance.  I guess that’s what I’m trying to do here.  But that can only do so much.  We must not neglect meeting together, in person, to the extent we can.  (I realize that some have significant barriers to getting together with fellow believers.  Those of us who are able should make every effort to help them overcome the barriers.)

Even someone like Paul, who traveled all over and had close relationships with a lot of people, wanted even more—and he wanted it to be in person:

Without ceasing I mention you always in my prayers, asking that somehow by God’s will I may now at last succeed in coming to you. For I long to see you, that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to strengthen you— that is, that we may be mutually encouraged by each other’s faith, both yours and mine. (Romans 1:9-12)
I will visit you…and perhaps I will stay with you or even spend the winter… For I do not want to see you now just in passing. I hope to spend some time with you, if the Lord permits. (1 Corinthians 16:5-7)
But since we were torn away from you, brothers and sisters, for a short time, in person not in heart, we endeavored the more eagerly and with great desire to see you face to face…  We pray most earnestly night and day that we may see you face to face. (1 Thessalonians 2:17 & 3:10)

The same was true of John:

Though I have much to write to you, I would rather not use paper and ink. Instead I hope to come to you and talk face to face, so that our joy may be complete. (2 John 1:12)

Complete joy, he says.  Suggesting that joy isn’t complete unless there is face to face interaction.  From experience at past retreats, I know it is a true joy to be together with fellow believers.  To renew friendships, and make new ones.  To exhort one another.  To stir one another up.  To be mutually encouraged.  To build one another up in our faith, our hope and our love.

It would be great to see you in person—if not next week, then “somehow by God’s will”.

Love, Paul

Suggested Readings
In Matthew 23:12, Jesus says, "Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted." Being humbled is an uncomfortable, but necessary part of growing in Christ. If we stubbornly resist God will make sure we encounter situations in our lives that do humble us.
View all events
Upcoming Events